I asked James what it means when a man says, "I don't want to get married right now." He said it means that the man needs to get his shit together. If he said that to a woman it would mean he wants to get everything squared away before he gets married because that would just complicate things and he would worry the woman would nag him about getting things taken care of or ridicule him how he ended up in the mess he is in.
Simple....he's not done doing SOMETHING yet! Whether it is women, career, sports, or buying and playing with guy toys, there is something that he feels he will have to do without once he commits.
ReplyDeleteCan I call you and get your translations? I like your input.
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