Fantasy and sex

One of my girlfriends told me she is having fantasies about sex a lot and thinks about it all the time. She said it is even interrupting her work and she's not as productive as she should be right now. I told her that I wish I would thin k about sex but I don't have time or energy to think about it I'm so busy at work. Then I was talking to another friend and she said he has been watching wrestling because it's like porn for him. He watching women wrestlers beat up guys. He said the women always win no matter how much bigger the guy is. So I asked him if he could listen to a song and get tuned on or feel something because of a song like, Kings of Leon, Sex On Fire. And he said no way and that he doesn't even listen to the lyrics to songs and even if he did listen to the words a song wouldn't do it for him and that would be weird to him. I told him I don't think music moving someone and making them have feelings such longing or happiness isn't strange music moves people. I told him I think he's watched too much porn (meaning the fundamental/simple things don't do it for him). He just responded that he doesn't watch that much porn.

Later, I'll go into how wrestling came up in the conversation with my buddy.