In a conversation with Vivi she told me not to look at my failed relationships as if I chose the people I've dated and it's my fault. She said I do that because I am by nature a very responsible person. She thinks I should just look at those relationships as if that just what happened not like I failed. And I realized that not everything that happens in my life and result is totally on me, my fault and my responsibility because I wasn't the only person in the relationship so the result was because of the actions of two people not just one and the responsibility was shared. Somehow that made me feel a lot better about things. Friends are the best.
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