Came to light over the last few months

I didn't realize that guys tell women all the same lines:

I should have gotten a divorce a long time ago;
My ex-wife was lazy, never did this or that;
My ex-wife cheated on me;
My ex-wife didn't do this for me or that for me sexually;
My ex-wife was selfish;
My ex-wife was spoiled;
Yadda, yadda, yadda

After reading messages on OKCupid, various emails and talking to guys on the phone, it seems like they all have the same story. It's enough to scare crap out anyone, not just me.